As I reflect on Sociology 2311 I realize that this is truly a course that opens up one’s mind. I admire the fact that this course was as much about learning as it was about unlearning. Coming from a western civilized country such as Canada it is easy to become consumed and blinded by the simplified and “idealistic” lifestyle our society fosters, without looking at the rest of the world and how closely it affects our own circumstances. Many issues plaguing the world today are made entirely unaware because they are “out of sight, out of mind”. This course helped to take a look outside the box and push away the obvious. The obvious is a concept I have really taken into consideration on reflection of this course because I have learned that the obvious is what allows for ignorance and misunderstanding of others cultures or beliefs. The obvious is what can mask the truth when looking at society and can create binaries such as right and wrong, true and false, acceptable and unacceptable. I have learned from this class that there is no “right or wrong” when looking at society because society is such a subjective, fluid and transformable body that is constantly rebelling despite the rules that are created and are said to be “obvious”.
The obvious negatively effects our perceptions and paves the way for stereotypes, ethnocentrism and social injustice. For example our preconceived “truths” about identity often get influenced by what is believed to be obvious. These obvious truths include stigmas such as “all Asians are obviously smart, all men must love women, all women must have babies, and all blacks are criminals” etc. It is unfortunate that these kinds of invalidation myths have become commonsense in the Western world because they are seen as obvious. From this class I have learned that identity transcends these types of labels. My most valuable lesson has been that gender and race are socially constructed. I can understand now that male and female characteristics go no further than biology, and that racial characteristics go no further that physical appearances. The unfortunate truth is that these two identifiers are the root cause of stratification and domination in society, allowing for social injustice.
It is bittersweet because I know it will take a lot before the whole world is able to open their eyes and see all differences with relativism, curiosity and acceptance rather than fear. But, this course has also taught me that knowledge is the most powerful tool in bettering the world and making a difference. With what I have learned from this class I am able to share my knowledge with others, and develop my own knowledge into further improving my community. As I have learned, we are all brothers and sisters, and are all so amazingly connected that even our smallest efforts can make a huge difference. I will now reject the obvious, become more tolerant, curious, and opened minded in my classroom, my community and the rest of the world.